[ He tries to imagine himself as a girl, but... well. It's neither easy nor hard- he just sees himself, as he is, but apparently this other leader is completely different. And this opposite personality from his is surprisingly easy to visualize, somebody with a lot of energy who easily gets along with others and is comfortable with her place in the world... ]

Will you tell me about her? If she went through the same journey as I did... and it ended in the same way... I think it'd make her really happy to be talked about and remembered. I would be.