[She's just -- absolutely wonderful at making him curious, possibly because he's certain he won't get a direct answer if he asks, and also partly because asking seems like it would be terribly rude.]

I'm not going to pretend I wasn't a total prong for a while. But there's a huge difference between me telling you and you having experienced it, so I'm honestly a little glad no one here has.

[Does that suffice for an answer?]

Part of learning not to be a prong, a huge part, was acceptance. I've accepted so many things, and it's helped a hell of a lot.